Monday, June 27, 2005
The trip is winding down
Friday, June 24, 2005
Playing our way through the days
Tuesday, June 21, 2005
POV: Samuel
Sunday, June 19, 2005
It's official! (and I'm exhausted)
Wednesday, June 15, 2005
Message from Alisher
Hi! My name is Alisher, and I understand that I am going to be adopted today. I don't know what 'adopted' means, but it seems like it might be a good thing. I would like to tell you a little about my life up until now, since I have a feeling my world is going to change very soon.
I was born on July 30, 2004 in the Maternity Hospital, where I lived for for 6 weeks. I moved to the Baby House of Ust-Kamenogorsk on a warm day in September. Boy, it is a nice place! There are lots of nice ladies to take care of me. I must be special, because all the ladies have to take turn changing my clothes, feed me and hold me. They said that I was a little weak and sad when I came to stay, but they gave me some extra attention and I got stronger and happier every day.
I live a two room suite. One room is for sleeping. It is dark and warm...perfect for my 3 naps a day and my good night time sleep. About 12 other babies are there with me too. Sometimes they cry when they go to bed, but I'm pretty quiet in my crib. I've learned to rock back and forth on my hands and knees to settle myself down. The second room is sunny and bright, with lots of window and funny cartoon characters painted on the wall. We get to play in two big playpens in the middle of the room. The real tiny babies play in their own seperate little cribs. In this room, they feed me and change my clothes and the doctor comes to check me out.
There are about 150 children in my building. Sometimes, there is a lot of noise. It is good to hear all the children playing and having fun, but sometimes they are sad and lonely. The kids here are young...babies up to 5 years old. When they get to be 5 years old, they move down the street to another Baby House and start going to school.
The last 2 weeks something different has been happening in my life. It has been exciting! I was put in the arms of a nice lady 2 weeks ago. Boy, was she smiling at me. I've never seen anyone smile so big. I wasn't sure what to make of her...she smelled different and looked different. She took me upstairs to the big kids playroom. I had never been there before. She got out some neat, new toys and she made me giggle. Maybe she is OK.
She has come to visit me everyday, twice a day. When she comes in my room and I see her, I smile and kick my feet. I'm happy to see her. For the few days I was sick and didn't feel good, she still came to visit me and play with me. She took me outside for a few walk and showed me the birds and the trees. I hope I learn more about outside. She walks me throught the cool hallways of the Baby House, showing me all the pretty murals of birds and butterflies on the walls. She has a bunch of nifty toys in that bag she brings every day. I wonder what else is in there? She even wipes my face when I drool and spit up. Oopps! Two times, I bonked my head on the floor and started to cry and she picked me up and held me. That made me feel better and I stopped crying. She makes my laugh and giggle every day with her funny smiles, toys and raspberries on my belly and neck.
I don't how what being 'adopted' means, but if it means more love and fun like I've been getting for the past few weeks, count me in!
Chat again soon after I figure this all out,
Alisher
Message from Sharon: Adoption court hearing is in one hour, 11am, Thursday, June 16. We should get a decision around noon. This afternoon we'll have a little party at the Baby House with the familes, celebrating the adoption and one our baby's First Birthday. Tomorrow we go back to court to ask for the next 2 week waiting period to be waived. If all goes as planned, we'll fly back to Almaty on Saturday. I'll try to post on Saturday. If you don't hear from me until Sunday, know that everything went as planned, I'm a Mom and I'll be back in contact after I get back to Almaty. :-) I've gonna be a MOM in a few hours. Wow!
Sunday, June 12, 2005
Passing the time
We are going great. Each visit is something I really look forward to and feel sadder and sadder to leave everyday, knowing I won't see him for hours and hours. Samuel is doing great, although the Doctor is a bit worried that he is still weak from his cold last week and wants me to keep him mellow for a few more days in order to strengthen him up for the trip to Almaty. He is a love muffin, regardless!
Our group of families (now 6 families) are really enjoying being together. It is the saving grace to being this far from home. One of the families goes to court today to adopt Sean, the little boy in the 3rd photo with Samuel. He is a cute as can be and is going into a very lovely, warm family. We are all excited for them today, but tonight they will fly home without the baby for 2 weeks, then return to finish the paper work and bring little Sean home in early July. Much longer process for them then us.
Time is blurring a bit here. Not too much to remind us of home other than a Pepsi, Fanta or Coke. We did discover Baskin Robbins a few days back and I've accidentially stopped in 4 times so far :-) Their pineapple sherbert is a little slice of tropical heaven. I've been finishing a book every few days and watching lots of the DVD's I brought. We heard someone speak English at breakfast the other day...that was a treat and we all found ourselves eavsdropping just to hear a Yank speak!
Gotta go catch the van!
xoS
Friday, June 10, 2005
Baking in Ust-Kamenogorsk
I finally have figured out the computers here well enough to realize that I need to be the first one at the Library to use the Internet and hog up the fastest machine...that speed things up considerably. Bad part is that the van leaves for the orphanage in a few minutes, so this will be quick.
We had our first visit outside yesterday. We walked around the baby house a few times and sat in the shade. Samuel seemed to be taking it all in, but was silent for nearly the full hour, as he watched the trees, birds and other children play. I don't think he has gone outside much..if ever. I think the 6 days of visits in isolation got him used to my lap, so he hasn't been crawling as much as the first few days. Lap time is good for the bonding, but not so good for the physical development. I imagine that we'll rectify that soon as we are really together full time.
Did I tell you that he drools like a fountain and spits up a lot. It has been kind of funny, since most of the time it is on me! The group watches out for me and throws me kleenex and towels, but you can be sure that we are all laughing too. Let's just say that recycled kefir and porridge is not real pleasant :-) One of the moms here is a Pediatric nurse and thinks that he has reflux (just like us older folks do) and probably needs Zantac for awhile, but we'll have to wait until we get home for that. Babies usually grow out of refluxing by 1-2 yrs old. In the meantime, I have packs and packs for Kleenex and I'll keep rinsing my shirts out everynight.
2 weeks down, but still more than 2 weeks to go. Time passes reasonably fast, but knowing that I won't be home for another 2 1/2-3 weeks seems like forever. Our only saving grace is that once back in Almaty (hopefully next Saturday), the 4 families are all staying at the Hyatt Regency. It is a lovely, modern, comfortable hotel, with a/c, fruit for breakfast (vs. all the eggs, cheese and grease here) and a lovely SWIMMING POOL. We are all fantasizing about that on a daily basis.
The weather here is HOT! Our group of 4 families bought and donated 2 fans for the playroom since they don't seem to believe in opening windows.
Gotta run...love to all. Too hard to respopnd to everyone's post...but THANK YOU!!!
xoS
Wednesday, June 8, 2005
Different Day, different diaper
Some people fondly refer to this time as "Groundhog's Day"...if you haven't seen the movie, you wake everyday and it is exactly the same as the last. Truly, we are all having fun and adjusting to the rountine.Our group gets along great and we've had no real problems together.
Samuel is out of isolation! Hopefully, for the last time. It was MUCH more fun to play with him in the playroom with all the other families and children. There are two other families now (from a dif. agency) so that makes 6 families altogether. There is a nice bond between us.
Samuel is playing and playing and really enjoys grasping my fingers to pull himself up. I've got to get his muscles moving. He also is curling up in arms regularly and that is divine. He had his first tears with me today after he bumped his head, but I was able to quickly soothe him. (Also felt divine) I know I'm beginning to sound like a Mom, but I really do that that he is special, very loving and easy going. It all feels reeeeaaaaaallllly good! Of course, I haven't changed a dirty diaper yet, but I don't think that'll discourage me.
A few details:
Court date for the adoption to become final is June 16th, 9am. It should just be a formality. We should be flying back to Almaty with the babies on June 18th. We pick the babies up on way to the airport and dress them for the first time in the clothes we brought from them. I might be out of Almaty by June 29th...that is the hope. Frankly, delays now seem to be inevitable, so I'm assuming we'll have a delay. The whole process is taking a bit longer than we were told, but it isn't as big of a deal to me now.
We go to the orphanage twice a day...around 10-noon and 2pm-4pm. Our little group eats breakfast together at the hotel ('do you want eggs or eggs for breakfast') and then we alternate eating out as a group lunch one day, dinner the next. The restaurants are OK, but fresh greens are hard to come by. Everything is swimming in mayo and it is advised not to eat fresh greens that aren't peeled or washed with purified water. The grocery here is awesome (practially like Whole Foods at home) and you can get nearly anything you want that is packaged or canned...fresh is a bit scarier. They even have Nutella and Starbust candy, so I'm good to go! :-) A few days ago we discovered a Baskin Robbins and I've accidentially stopped in a few times for a scoop. Their pineapple sorbet is to-die-for! And for those that know me too well, they even have a few lovely shoe stores :-)
The weather is getting quite warm...high 80's now. Not too humid and no bugs (so far). There are tons of butterflies in the afternoon sky and the cotton off the cottonwood trees floats in the breeze.
The people seemed to be of reasonable means and dress nicely. The apartment buildings look a little run down, but maybe that is just from the outside. There is almost no trash in the streets and I've barely seen anyone smoking, either indoors or out.
Thanks to all that have written. I've read them all and REALLY appreciate the comments and support. This is an exciting adventure...I do feel so lucky!
Chat in a few days!
xoS
Monday, June 6, 2005
Update of Day 5-7 - going strong!
Friday, June 3, 2005
Day Four under my belt
Thank you all for all the wonderful comments on Samuel. I finally was able to read them all.
Megs, Gary sent me a few graduation shots. Lovely and I'm very proud of you! I hope you slipped Matthew Perry my telephone number.
Brooke...1 more week and you are graduating yourself. I'm also so proud of you!
Samuel is doing great, but we were still in isolation today. At least they didn't bundle him up as much as the past few days. We are getting quite attached to our 3 foot play area. Today, I met with the orphanage doctor and she said that he was healthy and developmently normal, just behind a few months. She said that he just needed to be held, some vitamins and some time outdoors....easy, pleasy. Samuel seems to recognize me more now that I pick him up in his room and is staring at my face (and poking it) and falls easier into my arms. We are getting our little routine down. You can see in the second picture that he has a cute little habit of clasping his hands together, as if saying "bravo, bravo". It is probably a self-soothing gesture, but it is cute.
We've had quite a time at our hotel, the Beibars. We call it The Marble Prison, because it is behind a guarded fence and the interior is dripping in marble. It wants to be a nice hotel, but still trying. We speculate that that in the Soviet era it was a government retreat or such. We've decided that their motto is "Service without Expression" :o|
We have a group of teenage Russian rock stars staying at our hotel, American Idol-/Backstreet Boys-like. We saw a few of them last night. They looked about 12 years old (but older, I'm sure) and were surrounded by 6-8 giggling , well dressed young ladies. It was quite entertaining watching the girls do their 'thing' and the boys just sit back and take it all in.
Gotta go...hugs and kisses to all!
Thursday, June 2, 2005
We are doing GREAT!
I had journal entry all composed offline to cut and paste into the journal this afternoon and it came out Russian gobbly-gook when I opened it... so I'll handle that tomorrow and make it quick today...
We are doing great. Samuel is still a little sick, so we played in isolation today. Since they won't allow him to crawl on the floor (no carpet), we had to make do with a rickety chair, a stool and a small end table. I think it's good prep for the airplane ride. Otherwise, he is healthy and strong. Did I mention he has 6 teeth??? And he loves to grab anything that makes a crinkling sound and puts everything in his mouth. Hopefully, he'll be well enough for the group playroom tomorrow.
I'll be better prepared for the next post with more details about our trip, the city and, of course...The Muffin :-)
Thank you for all the lovely posts. I can't seem to read all of them today (slow dial up internet here), but I'll get to them.
xoS
Wednesday, June 1, 2005
He is ADORABLE!!!!
Yeah! I've met Samuel and he is all I could have hoped for...happy, healthy, adorable, smily, sweet...I am very lucky and very happy.
I have visted Samuel 3 times in the orphanage so far and should be able to go twice a day for the remainder of the 2 weeks. He had a little cold today, so my play time was in isolation, but I was proud of the fact that I was able to entertain him by myself. He really is adorable and good natured (so far). I'll send details about him as the days pass.
We had had a few logistic delays and obstacles to overcome. Mom and Dad did make it to Ust-Kamenogorsk and did get to meet and play with Samuel, but they had to fly back to Almaty tonight since all the lfights were full for days and days (big conference in Ust). Also, we four families adopting are all having to bunk down in two rooms for 3 nights due to the shortage of hotel rooms for the conference. Such is life in a third world country. I'll give more details on the city in later emails.
Deb A. - I would have loved to have you here, but I'm glad that you aren't flying in next week because flying isn't as simple as we thought it would be, nor do many people speak english outside of the big hotels.
Shirley - Thanks for the biscotti :-)
Internet isn't as easy as I had hoped so I'm sure I won't be able to post more than a few times a week. I hope the photos come through.
All is very well!
